Thursday, August 22, 2013

Earning My Wings


Disclaimer: This is a story, a memoir almost, about how I became a Red Wings fan. That’s all it is, so don’t be disappointed if you’re expecting anything else.

I’m a big believer in real, true fanhood. Sports are a huge passion in my life, but it is this belief that leads me to declare fanhood to only 3 teams amongst the 6 major sports I follow (counting all college sports as 1).  Born and raised in Tallahassee by two Florida State alumni, I grew up rooting for the Seminoles. Even still, it wasn’t until I got accepted into FSU that I truly knew what it meant to be a Nole. Since Florida’s capital isn’t home to any pro-football teams, it’s only logical to declare fanhood to one of the 3 teams in the state. After I went to a Dolphins game at age four with my dad, and saw Dan Marino play, I was hooked for life. You’d be hard pressed to find anybody who would question my fanhood regarding either of those teams, however, my third loyalty belongs to a team I’ve never watched in person, found in a state I’ve only driven through.

My oldest brother, Aaron, has probably influenced my passion for sports more than anyone. He encouraged me, and my brothers Josh and Jacob, to pick a team to follow in each professional sport since we were all Florida State fans. I was probably 6 at the time and I was all about the color red. It was that stage (hopefully not unique to me) when your favorite color influences every aspect of your life. All I wore was red. My favorite Power Ranger was the Red Ranger and Raphael was my favorite Ninja Turtle. So when Aaron told me to pick my teams I had him present me with all the teams whose primary color was Red. I chose the Cincinnati Reds (MLB), the Portland Trailblazers (NBA), the Kansas City Chiefs (NFL— the Dolphins were still my team), and the Detroit Red Wings (NHL). As you can tell, this fanhood was very shallow, temporarily rooted (favorite colors change), and immature. So, naturally, as I began to grow up I started actually following sports. Just as I am today, I was smitten with them. I didn’t feel the need to have a team for all of them. Yet my immaturity was still apparent as I only found interest in the “big three” pro sports (NFL, NBA, MLB) and college football- obviously. All of this is to say one thing: I had no interest in hockey, so as a result, I never lost my fanhood for the Red Wings. Anytime I was confronted with a hockey highlight or update I always rooted for Detroit, it just wasn’t wholehearted since I didn’t care for the sport. Essentially, my fanhood lied dormant.

Fast forward to my freshman year of high school. My brother Jacob had just moved into a dorm at UNF and his roommate was a huge NHL fan. When Jacob came home and told me all about his newfound interest in the sport, I reevaluated my view on it. Although it was far from immediate, I slowly began to come around on hockey. As I gave it a second chance, I never doubted who my favorite team was. My interest in the NHL grew very slowly through high school until my junior year when I met someone else who liked it—Tallahassee, as a whole, couldn’t care less for the hockey (insert Tiger Sharks allusion). This guy’s name was, and still is, Evan Cameron. Evan was no ordinary high school kid though. He looked like he walked straight off the set for Lords of Dogtown and was the star goalie for Chiles’ soccer team. Also he was dating a dime and sported a sweet red Jeep Cherokee around town. On the front of the jeep was a metallic Red Wings plate that just set him comfortably atop my man crush list. When he gave me a ride home from a study group one night before finals, I told him I was a Red Wings fan and sparks flew.

The entire Cameron family follows Red Wings hockey the same way every other Tallahassee household follows Florida State football, so I’m not sure how much I influenced Evan, but I’m sure he enjoyed the company. That year, and every year since, we watched the playoffs together. Our good buddies Chris Kessling, Phillip Kelly, and Josh Waller frequently join(ed) us. It was a magical first postseason as friends. The Wings advanced to the Stanley Cup Finals for a rematch with the Pittsburgh Penguins (We beat the Pens to win the cup in 2008). While the series was memorable for many reasons, I’ll never forget the disappointment of watching our team lose that game 7. Though I’m sure the Camerons probably secretly blamed me for the loss- I felt like I deserved blame- they knew I was sticking around.

As Evan and Chris moved to Gainesville for college, it was hard to keep up with the regular season together. I did my best, but I didn’t have any other friends who liked hockey. That changed when I started working at Sonny’s with a tall, handsome gentleman named Steven Zewicky. While he grew up in Nashville rooting for the Predators, Steven is a bigger Red Wings fan than me and has a lot of family in Detroit. Aside from being one of the coolest dudes I’ve ever met, Steven gets significant credit for my maturation into a full-time fan. After taking this next step in my fanhood we watched the Red Wings claw their way into a 22nd straight playoff appearance. Watching them go into Anaheim and win a game 7 was possibly the most fun I’ve ever had watching a professional sporting event. I felt a sense of pride and pain that I’d never experienced before when we took the eventual Cup champion Chicago Blackhawks to seven and fell just short. It was then that I knew I had earned my stripes as a Detroit Red Wings fan. Maybe to others I had reached true fanhood years before, but I finally convinced myself that night that I was officially there. I proved to myself that I was a real fan, the way I define the word.

This offseason I’ve been more invested in the team than ever before and have already begun planning for games in Florida that we’ll be attending, as well as a possible trip to the Winter Classic! In the next year I’ll be purchasing my first jersey and game ticket as my journey will continue to grow in memories and excitement. I’m in for life.

So that’s it really. It’s not really an inspiring story, but it’s my story. The story of how I became a Detroit Red Wings fan. I’m sure it doesn’t mean much to anyone else, but hopefully it can be of some benefit going forward.

*Other notable Red Wings fans left out of the story: Chad Reinhardt, Karlee Young, Adam Reichert, Kyle Cotton, Ben Peirce, Kid Rock, Tupac Shakur, and a handful of others that weren’t memorable enough to name






Sunday, August 11, 2013

Marin


I listened to Invented on the way home. Not a particularly fitting song for the occasion but most Jimmy songs aren’t, they just always carry that sentimental tone so it always leaves me feeling nostalgic and emotional. Not that I was short on those emotions tonight, but it felt appropriate when it came up on shuffle. Tonight I said goodbye to a dear friend. She is moving to West Virginia to start a new chapter in her life with her fiancé, Kyle. I’m excited and happy for her as she embarks on a brave adventure.

I remember the first time I worked with Marin. She was so nice to me and very unassuming. She had been working at Sonny’s a few months longer than me but immediately I felt comfortable around her. Anyone who has met her can affirm that. At first I thought she was just another coworker, but the more time I spent around her, the more I began to really like her personality. I think the biggest thing was how quickly she figured out my sarcasm and appreciated it. Once you can be yourself around someone, it’s very easy to bond. That’s exactly what Marin and I did for the next two years. You build some incredible friendships working with people, especially when waiting tables. Marin is just a fun and wonderful person to be around. She is a tough girl. She’d come to work with different things going on and still cheer you up and have a good attitude no matter what. I loved making her laugh on a tough day when we both hated our jobs. She was one of the hardest working servers I ever worked with, yet you’d rarely hear her complain (especially compared to most servers). Above all else, her humility astonished me. She never expected anything from anyone and always treated everyone with the utmost respect and kindness- regardless of merit or stature. There’s no way to describe the excitement I got when I would come in to work and see her name on the schedule (or already clocked in). Working and spending time with her was an absolute highlight of the last 3 years of my life. College has been a wonderful time in my life, one that I will always look back at with fond memories, and there haven’t been many people that I consider more privileged to call my friend than the wonderful Marin Dennie (soon to be Marin Rogers)!

PS- I attached the only pics I had of me and Marin on my phone. A tragedy these are the only ones, I know...